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While you can read the Dating Site Fine Print of any individual company you sign up with to find out, I'd just assume the site you're with does this.
As well, most of the up-and-coming and/or popular dating sites will either pay folks to chat with members, fluff the numbers a bit with fake profiles, or both.
With that in mind, I'll only go into the why's briefly, and try to spend more time on the how's (what you can do to increase your responses).
In online dating, it’s all about likes, swipes, and sending the first message. At least that’s what we can discern from most examples of romance in Western culture.Because men supposedly can’t wander into the mythical Bar (and it’s a “a woman can wander into a bar” scenario) and wander out five minutes later with a woman eager to jump his bones, women by default have greater power when it comes to dating.Men have to compete in order to win her approval while a woman gets to pick and choose who she wants based on whatever arbitrary standards she feels like in the moment.I've come across numbers as high as 30% where the people listed, for whatever reason, weren't actually available to meet - so this is a factor to take into account.Next up, women get a lot of messages, depending on their age and demographic.
Men feel helpless; they feel that they are forced to leap through hoops in order to win women’s approval and hope that she will pick him against all odds. In fact, not only is the idea that women somehow control all the power in sex and dating not true, but it’s a case of people asking the wrong question.